Flying a Piper PA28 for my 33rd B’Day

Flying a Piper PA28 for my 33rd B’Day

Events, Experience

A day after my birthday, on the 6th of October 2023, Hema told me that I was getting a surprise gift for my birthday. I was wondering what it was, given that she just bought me a DJI Mini 4 Pro drone a week before. She then went on and said that I was going to fly an airplane the next day. I thought she was kidding. It turned out that she was not. A month prior to my birthday, she had booked a flying experience at an airport 15minutes from our flat at Camberley. I was so excited and thrilled about it. Enjoy the video below.

Top 10 things to do to get started in the UK

Top 10 things to do to get started in the UK

Events, Experience

After 8 years in Italy, I relocated to the UK along with my wife on the 3rd of April, 2023. I can tell you that there are many things that you must do as soon as you move to the UK. In this post I will share a comprehensive guide from personal experience. I will outline each task 1-by-1, to help you navigate the process of settling in the UK.

I am going to go through these items in the order of importance.

1. Collect your BRP

Everything starts with your BRP also known as Biometric residence permit. It is given to you if apply to stay in the UK for more than 6 months and it can be used to confirm you identity and your right to use public services or benefits. You need to collect it, usually at a post office of your choosing. It should be collected within 10 days of your arrival. We arrived on the 3rd of April and the very next day we collected our BRP’s at Guildford before moving to Camberley.

https://www.gov.uk/biometric-residence-permits/getting-your-brp-if-you-applied-from-outside-the-uk

2. Inform & Setup Council Tax

The next thing to do is to inform your council of your move-in to the new address. This is also typically done within the first 10 working days of your move. Sometime your housing or real-estate agent would have informed the council of your move immediately after signing your contract. But it is your responsibility to call them up and inform them of your arrival. They will register and inform you instructions of how you should start paying your council tax. You can choose to pay the entire years council tax or opt to pay them in installments every month by direct debits from your bank account or through their online portal. The amount of tax you will be paying depends on many factors like you council tax band for your apartment and your council itself.

https://www.gov.uk/council-tax-bands

3. Inform British Gas & setup account

The next thing to do is to inform your utility provider about your move-in. Again, they may also be informed beforehand by your housing agency, but it is important that you inform them personally and set up an account with them to start paying for utilities. Our apartment was registered with British Gas previously, so we registered with them. Once registered you are free to switch to other providers. This switch is typically free. Please make sure to read your terms and conditions before switching to your provider.

4. Inform South East Water

The next time in this list is to inform your water company or provider. Also, the water company may have been given heads-up about your move, it is your responsibility to set up an account and payments methods to start paying for your usage.

💡 Typically, the charges of your utilities are fixed monthly payments based on your average usage. Initially it could be high or low depending on how the usage was in the months or years prior to your moving. But this could change based on your current usage pattern. Don't be alarmed when you see that you have to pay for example 50 GBP within the first 10 days of your move. This will be used as a credit and will be deducted based on your usage.
💡 Another point it that you will have to setup direct debits for these payments, however you don't have a bank account yet. This is not a problem; you pay using a credit or debit card and set up a direct debit later once you have a bank account.

5. Bank Account

So the next logical thing to do is open a bank account. You have plenty of options like Barclays, LLoyds, HSBC, NatWest, Santander. The process of opening a bank account is pretty much the same for every bank. All you need it to choose a bank of your choice and then download their app. You can simply follow the instructions to prove your identity and provide address proof to initiate an application. You would typically be asked for your passport, BRP and one of the bills from your utility provider. Thankfully for me, one of our utilities company immediately generated our first bill and we used that to provide proof of our address. In 5 -10 working days your account will be opened and a week or so later you will receive your debit card PIN and followed by your debit card.

6. Register with GP – NHS

Now let’s focus on health. Most western countries provide health care for free, of course from the taxes you pay. This requires you to register with a doctor or a local hospital. Here in the UK, this is your GP or General Practitioner. This GP is like your family doctor and is the main point of contact for your healthcare.

Find out your nearest GP using https://www.nhs.uk/service-search/find-a-gp this link. Call them up and let them know that you would like to register with them or find their website and simply follow the instructions on how to join the practice. They usually have 3 parts to this registration.

  1. Patient Details
  2. Health questionnaire
  3. online access.

Once you complete this successfully, you should receive within 5-10 working days your NHS number by post. Keep this safely for you reference. There is also a handy NHS app to find information regarding healthcare and to book your appointments. Since it is post-COVID, the NHS service will recommend you to get vaccinated. In case, you are already vaccinated, which I was, you can inform NHS of this and they will update their vaccination records. It is simply sending your vaccination records and identity proofs to an email. you can find more information in this link

https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/covid-19-services/covid-19-vaccination-services/tell-the-nhs-about-covid-19-vaccinations-outside-england/

7. National Insurance (NI)

National Insurance is like social security, and you need this to qualify for certain benefits and state pension. You can find information about this at https://www.gov.uk/national-insurance. This is something your employer will also ask you so that they can link their pensions to your records. You find information on how to apply here https://www.gov.uk/apply-national-insurance-number. You will see that one of the requirements for applying NI is right-to-work. And if you entered the UK using a skilled worker visa or any other type of work visa, you can find proof of right to work from here https://www.gov.uk/prove-right-to-work.

8. Sign up HMRC

Her Majesty’s Revenue & Customs is the UK’s tax, payments, and customs authority. They collect the money that pays for the UK’s public services and help families and individuals with targeted financial support. In order to manage your taxes and avail tax benefits, if you are eligible, you need to sign up for an account with the HMRC. I don’t know if it is mandatory, but I was suggested that I do sign up for an account with them, so I did.

9. Electoral Registration

I am not going to lecture on the importance of the right to vote, but it is important that you enroll yourself to vote in the local electoral register. You can find information about it here https://www.gov.uk/electoral-register. One other benefit that I found of being registered is the positive impact on your credit score. Although I have not noticed this yet, the banks themselves recommend that you enroll in the electoral register.

10. Provisional Driving License

If you are from a country that has an exchange agreement with the UK for converting to British driving license, well and good. You can convert to a British driver’s license. You can find information about it here https://www.gov.uk/exchange-foreign-driving-licence. If you are like me, then you have to pass the driving test and get a British driving license. The first step is to apply for a provisional driving license. You need this to take driving lessons and also for registering for the theory and practical exam for the license. You can apply your provisional driving license from here https://www.gov.uk/apply-first-provisional-driving-licence

After you apply for it, you will receive a letter in some days with a prefilled application and asking you to provide a proof of identity, specifically, you may have to submit your biometric residence permit. Send it along with the application to the address mentioned in that letter. They will return back your BRP and then followed by your professional driving license after a couple of days later. Now you can start taking driving lessons or drive with an approved driving instructor.

The first day of the rest of my life

The first day of the rest of my life

Events, Experience, Travel

A New Chapter

Adieu

First things first, a goodbye to the people, food, and country which has been with me for a little over 8 years. From September 2014 to April 2023, Italy has shaped me a lot. Too much has been said in my previous posts already here Plot Twist of 2023 – Manoj Manivannan and here Should I quit my job ? – Manoj Manivannan . The time has come to say bye to everyone. It was a hard moment that I knew would come eventually. The hardest part was saying goodbye to my mentor/manager Mr. Stefano Torri. I would continue to work with him albeit remotely, the thought that I would not be able to meet my colleagues at Modena made me shed a few tears. A goodbye to my kind neighbour Mirko Pesce whose help made my life in Modena little easier.

He was not only my neighbour, but also my only friend, occasional chauffeur and my translator for most occasions. @Mirko we never got a chance for that dinner. One day I hope we meet again for it.

A goodbye to my dear friends Entela (Thanks for the lunch and that easter egg chocolate), Marco and Eleonora (Thanks for hosting us for dinner and the tasty lasagne). You are welcome to our apartment when you visit the UK again. Looking forward for it.

March 16 to April 4: That was how long I took off from work to prepare ourselves mentally, physically and in so many others way for our journey. Although it was only a 2 and half hour journey, we had to pack our all our stuff and throw away those that we couldn’t fit in our allowed baggage. 4 large 32kg bags, 1 cabin bag and 2 backpacks. With that, we were all set to travel and begin the new chapter of our life.

We were headed to this 2-bedroom apartment in a calm town called Camberley which is 1 hour from Waterloo, London. Thanks to the business class tickets, we had the comfort of travelling hassle free, thanks to the relaxing lounge, and the priority access through security.

Although our flight started a late, the captain made up in speed to reach London Heathrow on time. It was our luggage that took a long time. After waiting for almost 30 minutes, we were welcomed by Hema’s maternal Uncle Prakash and my friend Ayyappan. A friendly slight and a warm welcome in a foreign land.

A smooth transition

Upon arrival we headed straight to Holiday Inn, Slough to drop off our luggage (just the 32kg ones) before going to Prakash’s home to have a tasty south Indian food. Radish and lentil stew and beet root gravy with rice and a side of potato only made the arrival experience even more pleasant. We spent the night at Holiday Inn and the next day headed to some supermarkets after having an assorted English breakfast. We bought some basic groceries like rice, wheat flour, onions, bread, eggs, milk, and few others which I am unable to recollect as I write this. Then we collected our apartment keys at the Waterford’s agency and went straight to our apartment. This 2-bedroom apartment had a large living room and an open kitchen which we really loved. The master bedroom came with these tall sliding door which opened into a large balcony facing east overlooking the London Road.

THE BIG DAY 😍 – PART-2 | WEDDING

THE BIG DAY 😍 – PART-2 | WEDDING

Events, Experience
https://youtube.com/watch?v=5tbRer7dQr8

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THE BIG DAY 😍 – PART-1 | RECEPTION

THE BIG DAY 😍 – PART-1 | RECEPTION

Events, Experience
https://youtube.com/watch?v=5tbRer7dQr8

The last couple of days were the most stressful that I have ever been in my life. Wedding gown, make-up, suit, Italian visa documents and million other wedding, pre-wedding, and post-wedding arrangements. Even on the eve of 28th, I was busy running around getting a document. Even at 1AM, mehandi session. Slept off at 2 AM and woke up at 5AM. The time was 1PM. We reached the venue, SVV Kalyana Madappam. The last couple of days were the most stressful that I have ever been in my life.

Wedding gown, make-up, suit, Italian visa documents and million other wedding, pre-wedding, and post-wedding arrangements. Even on the eve of 28th, I was busy running around getting a document. Even wedding arrangements. Even on the eve of 28th, I wedding arrangements. Even on the eve of 28th, I was busy running around getting a document. Even at 1AM, mehandi session. Slept off at 2 AM and woke up at 5AM. The time was 1PM. We reached the venue, SVV Kalyana Madappam.

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The Subsequent Meets

The Subsequent Meets

Events, Experience

The second meet – 22-Apr-2019 – Evoke 2.0 resto lounge, Velachery, Chennai. 🤩🤩

Choice is always hard. It is every harder when the food on the menu is a lengthy list of gibberish. We both were expecting the other to make a choice. Finally, it was Manoj on the blind folds and pointing the finger randomly while I ask him to stop. It was Potato wedges and a drink that we don’t even remember. some sort of mojito/crushers like the ones you get at McDonals’s or KFC. Two introverts trying to socialize. What a funny scene !

Our third meet – 26-Apr-2019 – Anjappar Hotel, Pallikaranai, Chennai 💗💗

I freaked out that the plan was to have the wedding in 2019. I had hoped for at least 2 years of gap between engagement and the wedding. Fear and tears brought along by the pressure. After a ____ 

A family dinner at Anjappar

The fourth meet 29-April-2019

After having met at Hema’s place, we went to Cafe Coffee Day, Medavakkam, Chennai. It was funny that they didn’t have a single variety of tea that Manoj wanted. Finally, he settled for the green tea. At least we thought it was a healthy choice. We had a long chat along with my coffee ☕. As we started speaking and sipping our drinks, Manoj realized that the green tea was a really bad choice. He then decided to never have green tea again 😁

After coffee, we took a ride to the beach in ECR. As we were about to get out of the car, I started complaining like a little kid about the salty air, sticky skin, and the frizzy hair if we go and stand at the beach. And I never expected, but you did get a little annoyed. Somehow, I showed some cuteness and dragged him towards the beach. This was somewhere near Pannaiyur where there were only a few other people taking an evening stroll.  

As we stood there looking at the horizon in silence, I felt shy and had no clue what to say. The more you insisted that I talk about something, the harder my struggle became to think of something. I wanted to talk to you, but never could come up with the words.

The fifth and last meet of the year – 30-April-2019

We developed this strong connection in this short time, and we were already fearing the emotion of missing each other once we are long distance. It was painful and we are already hoping to be united again. It was with a heavy heart that I bid adieu to my dear “partner in crime”. Hiding my tears, I went back home hoping that Manoj would have a safe journey back to Italy. Things always don’t happen the way we want it to be.

Manoj’s return trip, as painful as it already was, got even more stressful. His connecting flight got canceled unexpectedly. After the 2019 Balakot Airstrike, the Pakistani airspace was closed which we had no idea of. As a consequence, the connecting flight from Delhi-Milan was canceled and re-routed with a 24 hour delay. 

Later the same day, he was made to accommodate in one of a not-so-bad hotel in Delhi with poor internet connection. After hearing this agonizing news, with more tears, I wanted to fly to Delhi and be with him. I even checked flights. He sounded really stresses out and sad. It sounded like he was breaking down and I had to be there with him. Anyway, things don’t always stay the same. The next day, he got a flight Delhi to Austria and we had the first ever video call during his layover at Vienna.         We were so happy to see each other again. Missing each other more. The next flight on the 2nd of May 2019 he flew from Austria and reached safely in Milan. I believed him when he said this trip from Chennai to Italy was the most stressful journey ever in his life. The next time we met, it was going to be the biggest day ever in our life. Looking forward to it.

The First Meet

The First Meet

Events, Experience

Hema and I first met each other on the 12th of April 2019 at a place which would have been the last place if we had the choice to pick it ourselves. It was a Hindu temple located in Chennai, a coastal city in Tamil Nadu, India. After a very quick acquaintance, we moved to a not so busy mall (Forum Vadapalani) nearby to really get to know each other.